Understanding Love WHen it Finds You.

You know we live in this world, it is amazng. For many of us we lead fast paced busy lives that seem to encompass all of our days. It is filled with work, activity and more. However, all the while when we are single we are searching for the special someone to fill our lives with. In our goings about every day, we can find it hard and strange to keep moving while in the back of our minds, we are getting older, the clock is ticking and yet is seems like the prospects that we are looking are few and far between.

So for many of us the root and core of our lives is not more money, possession or notoriety, it's relationships. Whether they be of social nature, familial, professional or more, we understand that our relationships are very important. We create everything in our lives, problems, good times and other things, we are responsible for those things coming, and we have to learn to choose the right people for our lives.

You see my firends, our relationships and friendships are meant be healthy, positive, supportive, and easy and with like minded people who we share a strong passion with and deep connection. We don't need to be around toxic individuals who seek nothing but total self benefit without any regards to us, our lives or our feelings. Who are constantly negative, badmouthing us and sending tring to send us destructive thoughts. We need not give focus to these peopl. We should have supportive, loving people who care about us and that we think about often. Sending the ones we love in positive and healthy manner and not always putting our expectations upon them. Thats important.

Those individuals who are bringing us life and peace and giving of themselves are what the universe wants for us. We are not meant to be alone. We are never to meant to be alone, but have long last relationships that are full of substance, character, and love. In this our relationships are ones that are full of intimacy.

Understand that when we reach the level of this intimacy and especially in romantic relationships this is important. Our partners should support, encourage, and help out dreams and we should do the same. It is important to understand that we must begin to see our partnes needs and meet those needs as best we can while maintaining a balance in self. Our inner man knows our desires, Spirit, will send those desires to us and will help us balance ourselves in the right way. Spirit will also keep people away from us that mean us harm. Those people who are not like minded or who invade ourselves, but it is up to us to listen attentively to Spirit.

Although I have been teaching about Spirit and relationships for years, I have just come to understand this more in a deeper way. I had been in a 7 year relationship with a wonderful person, who I adored and our lives came together for a time. However, over the years, it had become evident that we were growing a part. Now I am a person who is free and independent by nature as those around me are. However, in relationship there become a certain path - no expectations, but one partner doesn't need to be doing the work. And this was hard for me for while to believe in my partner, but them, not being aware of it, not reciprocating and blaming me. I finally had to let that relationship go for my own sake.

For so long i had been asking for a new partner and new relationship that was supportive, peaceful, harmonious, drama free, kind, loving, healthy, gentle, positive, and fun. Someone who was independent, like minded, (and since I had been stalked by unwanted person who was constantly trying to cause trouble for me and my health [not pleasant by the any stretch of the imagination-] sane in their mind) - affirming and loving their thoughts towards me. They needed to be a big thinker and social. One of the most important thing is that they had to care for my family and employees as much as I did. So the universe heard me in all aspects, spiritual, physical, emotional and deep relationships for me. So we get what we put in our hearts and what we ask for in our hearts. The universe heard me.

I have never been so encouraged, adored, supported and appreciated. Simple messages and seeing about my welfare has really taught me more about myself. It's been a unique experience one that I cherish and kept close to my heart and mind. Love is shown and not just spoken and I have experienced. When I was in the hospital I found myself in a position of needing others for the first time in a while. It taught me something. I was visited by a dear friend that at the time and since, has been a tremendous healing force in my life in ways that they cannot understand. It has brought a lot of emotional healing to me, something that I needed, but wasn't aware of.


Friends, we have to understand that universe responds to our hearts (Intention) and not always just our minds (which as fleeting thinking) . Thoughts arise out of our hearts and from there life happens. The universe responds to what is going on inside of us and not our eyes or anything else. At the center of us is the subconscious mind that people are looking for and that they see. According to the Energy Bus by Jon Gordon, that our hearts at as the emotional center of being. People can detect heart energy up to 5,000 feet away. So it's stronger than our thoughts.

So when dealing with relationships, know that life happens from us. Our relationships are because of what is giong on in our hearts. Our focus is because of what is going on in our hearts. Our understanding is because of what is going on in our hearts. Integrity is about what is going on in our hearts.

Here ae some practical things:

1. Quiet your mind and hear your heart.....

Questions to ask:
What are you looking for and what are you after?
What kind of things are you wanting in your positive reactions with your life partner, soulmate, husband, or wife?
Are you truly happy with yourself? Are you at peace with you? What are you doing to make yourself peaceful?
How are you treating yourself?

2. Make a list of what you want and be specific and hold htat in your mind. Remember you choose what you want and stick to it. The universe will respond. And the universe will respond in a positive manner.

3. Affirmation. It important that you say this outloud and your intention - To borrow a phrase/affirmation from Marc Allen from his book Visionary Leardership - I am manifesting the life of dreams in a relaxed, easy, positive and healthy manner, this or something better for the good of all involved.

4. Focus on your partners good qualities. See yourself with your partner. See your life together. So what you want and your subconscious mind will do the rest.

5. Focus on yourself. Work on yourself, get in shape, look your best and begin to take care of you. Love yourself and form a good relationship with yourself. This is important. Get to know you. Celebrate your accomplishments and look for love from within. It is loving yourself and discovering the God within you the you find the love to love others. No worries. No restrictions.

6. Be yourself. Accept yourself. Love knows no bounds/genders/sexual orientation. When you find the right partner you know. Dont' be hung up by society's hang ups. They don't apply to you. It's your life, live it. Laws change and die, but you have live here now.